I’m a young, good looking (I’ve
been told this, by women and men), college educated, employed man. And I
just so happen to have a preference for plus-size women.
I’m betting I’m getting reactions from two “sectors” of readers. The
first sector is saying, “So, you think you deserve a medal because you
like big women? That’s not something you’re supposed to brag about.
You’re actually fat-shaming these by declaring your love for them.”
The second sector is saying, “You like fat women … so what? Why write about that?”
those in the first aisle of bleachers, I decided to write about my
adoration of curvy women because there may be more than a few of them
out there who don’t know that there are attractive men who want to date
them, or lust after them … or marry them.
In a perfect world, I
wouldn’t have had to write this article. Women of size wouldn’t be
treated differently than their thin counterparts. But we live in an
imperfect, unfair existence, and shapely women sometimes don’t get the
public fawning that smaller women do. It may not be the experience of
every plus-size girl, but it is for far too many.
For those of you
of the second opinion, my intent isn’t to waste your time. I don’t want
to interrupt you watching another World Star video on Facebook. But I
figure if I tell you about the kind of women that drive me crazy (in a
good way), then maybe it will inspire someone else to share an account
of what makes their heart skip a beat.
And I can’t lie, there’s a
little buccaneer spirit behind the creation of this article. Maybe my
crazy story might spark discussion on social media. The very concept of
beauty could be dissected and deconstructed!
I doubt that this
piece will cause that kind of action, but I do feel it’s important that a
man comes out and says, loudly, that he digs BBWs (Big Beautiful
Women). But what is it about plus-size ladies that turns me on? Let me
count way the ways…
1. They’re confident and comfortable in their own skin.
plus-size women have natural confidence, much like their thinner
counterparts, but many bigger women may not. These women usually develop
confidence over time, and it’s hard-earned confidence.
a large number of curvy women may have had to go through abuse (mental,
and possibly physical) and ridicule in their younger, and even adult
years. That’s beyond sad but what’s actually wonderful about this sh*tty
treatment is that once these ladies get through it, brush themselves
off, and thrive, they end up possessing an air of confidence that’s
regal, special, and magical.
And it’s really f*cking sexy. Ever
seen a curvy queen stroll through a party, and slay, effortlessly? I
have — and it’s hot. I totally respect it. It’s earned confidence that
also doubles as a victory lap for a woman who’s determined to win at
life. And I can’t get enough.
2. Their curves are super-hot.
curves, and more curves do it for me. There’s something about a shapely
figure, individual style, and again, confidence, that drives me wild.
Not that I don’t notice thin women. I do. I have. Full disclosure: I’ve
dated thin women in my time, but my preference is BBW.
3. Their butts are to die for.
I’m a lifelong butt man. Smaller women can have nice fannies, but no
one does junk in the trunk like plus-size women. If a guy doesn’t turn
his head when a hot BBW walks past wearing leggings, he’s blind. Or gay.
Or crazy. He’s not one of my homeboys.